I have always believed that sexual fantasies can enrich an active and healthy sex life whether kept to oneself or shared with one's partner or friends. It was always thought that men and women enjoyed different types of fantasy but current research suggests that that is no longer true. There is no reason then that you cannot share what you are thinking with someone of the opposite sex (or the same sex). What is important is to explore what turns you on and what turns your partner on and to work withand develop those thoughts and scenarios. Having good sexual experiences is more a psychological thing than it is a physical one. Exploring, sharing and developing fantasy scenarios can enrich your sex life.
My favourite fantasy involves me having my hands tied behind my back, not too tightly, in a darkened room and being taken from behind by a stranger. I know that he is a strong alpha male but trust him not to be too rough. Often, I have imagined my ex being forced to watch and being aroused by my situation as, I believe, many men would be. Sometimes, he then takes me as well.
This is my favourite fantasy. Several studies have tried to develop lists of common sexual fantasies and I have incorporated some of their common elements into my own poll on this blogspot. Please fill it in honestly. It is anonymous. I would also love to learn from you, but briefly, what your favourite fantasy actually involves. You can email me: blondiewhitepants@googlemail.com. Nothing too obscene as my emails might be monitored for content.
Blondie
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